Susan--I would say go with highlights for the summer and then if you want to dye it black, maybe do that in the winter. Although, I thought highlights were a good idea for me too and that didn't turn out so well. lol....
Re: waitressing, at least you'll get to see your friend George!

Sarah--thanks for the advice. I called her after I read your post and left a message. I don't think she will be mad but she may think I am a pain in the butt.

I need to get groceries so I am going to get dressed.

Love,
Tricia